Even a small disagreement can grow into a serious argument.  Problems like this may ruin a business relationship or friendship, but too often, what started as a simple argument ends in the courtroom.  Whether the dispute is between business people or family members, the legal process can magnify the original anger and resentment and leave all parties with legal fees and costs.  Sometimes, the result is not satisfactory to either party.

There are many ways to settle disputes, of course, ranging from negotiation to legal action, but mediation is an option that isn’t always explored.  Mediation is a valuable tool to settle issues and avoid costs of litigation.  So, what is mediation, and how does it work?

A mediator is a trained professional who acts as a neutral third party to help people solve their own disputes.  The mediator directs the parties’ conversation, helps the parties develop and address their concerns, and defuses some of the tensions that caused the problem in the first place. Ultimately, in a successful mediation, the parties reach an agreement with the assistance of the mediator on terms that both parties find acceptable.  Parties can mediate before or after they have talked to their lawyers.  The parties share the cost of the mediator, which reduces their costs.

We have an experienced mediator in our office.  If you have a problem, perhaps mediation is right for you.  You should see a lawyer, that’s what they’re for.

Dana Brooks